How to Use a Strap-On Harness with Remote Control

Quick answer

To use a strap-on harness with a remote control, first secure the harness comfortably, attach the dildo (like the Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On), then use the remote to control vibration patterns and intensity during play.

Step-by-step guide

1. 1. Prepare the harness and dildo: Lay the harness flat and adjust the straps to your waist and thigh measurements. Insert the dildo base through the O-ring from the inside, then tighten the ring or screw to hold it securely. For the Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On, bend the shaft to your desired angle before attaching. Common mistake: Forgetting to tighten the O-ring enough can cause the dildo to slip during use.
2. 2. Put on the harness: Step into the leg loops and pull the harness up. Fasten the waist buckle snugly but not tight enough to pinch. Adjust the straps so the dildo sits comfortably against your pubic bone. For XL models, check that the weight is supported by the harness, not pulling on the O-ring. Checkpoint: The dildo should feel secure but not press uncomfortably into your body.
3. 3. Test the remote control: Turn on the dildo using its power button (usually on the base or remote). Pair the remote if needed by pressing the sync button. Cycle through vibration modes and intensities to find a pattern that works for both partners. Keep the remote within easy reach—many have a wrist strap or magnetic attachment. Common mistake: Not testing the remote range beforehand—stay within 10-15 feet for reliable connection.
4. 4. Use during play: Start with a low intensity and increase gradually. The remote lets you change patterns without interrupting the rhythm. For bendable models, the angle you set earlier will target the G-spot or prostate. Communicate with your partner about pressure and speed. Checkpoint: If the dildo shifts or feels loose, stop and readjust the harness or O-ring.
5. 5. Clean after use: Remove the dildo from the harness. Wash the silicone toy with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Wipe the remote with a damp cloth—do not submerge it. Air-dry everything before storing. Common mistake: Submerging the remote can damage the electronics; use a damp cloth only.

Product facts

• MULTI ORGASM BENDABLE STRAP-ON - XL - NIGHT BLUE WITH REMOTE CONTROL: The Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On has three separate motors and an intuitive remote control. You can adjust vibration patterns and intensity for each motor independently, giving you or your partner tailored stimulation without stopping play.